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Today was the day Eden was supposed to have been delivered. Initially, Dr. Morris wanted to take her at 38 weeks. It would be a cop out if I told you I didn't cry; we both did. It is getting a little easier with each passing day. We have learned from those who have suffered this loss before us that we will never get over the death of our daughter. We must simply learn to live with this gaping hole in our hearts. Jonathon and I wanted to let you all know how much we appreciate your texts, emails, comments on the blog, cards and company. They continue to help us heal. We are incredibly blessed, not only for the birth of Eden Lanay, but for friends like you.
Love,
Tina & Jonathon
This blog is to document God's wonderful creation through us.
I will praise You, O LORD, with my whole heart; I will tell of all Your marvelous works. (Ps 9:1)
About Eden
Eden is a miracle. (See details below)
From conception to birth, she has shown that "With God nothing will be impossible." (Luke 1:37)
After 19 years of marriage and no kids, God surprised us with little Eden.
From conception to birth, she has shown that "With God nothing will be impossible." (Luke 1:37)
After 19 years of marriage and no kids, God surprised us with little Eden.
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Prayer Requests
Please pray for:
| * | Health for Tina |
| * | Eden's memory to be a testimony for Jesus. |
| * | Strength for Eden's mommy and daddy. |
Psalm 139:13-14
For You formed my inward parts; You covered me in my mother's womb. I will praise You, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made; marvelous are Your works, and that my soul knows very well.
Birth Countdown
July 3, 2009 at 2:20pm
Current Status
Eden Lanay Graves
Born July 3rd, 2009 at 2:20pm
Sex: Girl (of course)
Weight: 1.38kg (3.06 lbs)
Length: 42cm (16.5 in)
Born at 33 Weeks - 4 Days
Diagnosed with Trisomy 18 (Edward's Syndrome)
Went to heaven: July 10th, 2009 at 9:05pm
Born July 3rd, 2009 at 2:20pm
Sex: Girl (of course)
Weight: 1.38kg (3.06 lbs)
Length: 42cm (16.5 in)
Born at 33 Weeks - 4 Days
Diagnosed with Trisomy 18 (Edward's Syndrome)
Went to heaven: July 10th, 2009 at 9:05pm
Eden's Time on Earth
7 days, 6 hrs, 45 min
Miracles of Eden
Here are a few of Eden's Miracles:
Ultimately, the doctors were right in the diagnosis, but the percentage of those who make it as far as Eden is minute. We are so happy we continued the pregnancy! It was worth it all for the seven days we had with her.
| * | We became pregnant at all. After 19 years of marriage and seemingly unable to have kids. |
| * | 12 Weeks. Her ultrasounds and Tina's blood tests showed Eden would not make it to 19 weeks. |
| * | 19 Weeks. The doctors were shocked that she was still around and the ultrasounds looked 'normal' |
| * | 23, 25, 29 Weeks. Doctors continued to be shocked. They told us we should expect to lose her soon. |
| * | 33 Weeks. Doctors decided to deliver her early but thought she would not survive the birth. |
| * | July 3rd. Eden did survive and lived for seven days. |
| * | She stole the hearts of Mom & Dad without doing much of anything. |
| * | She stole the hearts of many of you whom she's never met! |
Ultimately, the doctors were right in the diagnosis, but the percentage of those who make it as far as Eden is minute. We are so happy we continued the pregnancy! It was worth it all for the seven days we had with her.
2 comments:
Dearest Tina and John,
I cry often, too! God is constantly reminding me that I need to look to Him and the future hope rather than what I'm selfishly desiring. I was looking forward to sharing this mother / parenting journey with you, and that our babies would be playmates. God has been working on my heart and changing my focus to be thankful.
This baby that's growing and growing inside me is a constant reminder of the blessing that we have been given, but that the only certain hope we have is in Jesus.
With Jonah (3yr old), we talk about going to Heaven to be with Jesus and meeting our little friend, Eden. He still sometimes asks to wear the pink flower to celebrate Eden.
I thank God for you!
Love,
Karina :o)
Tina and John,
I cry EVERY time I read any of your blogs. I can only imagine the empty feeling you have, but I thank God that we too will see Eden some day. Jordan (3 yrs) still talks about her, as well and that she will hold baby Eden when she gets to heaven. It makes my heart glad to know that not only was God there to hold her in His arms and make her whole, but that she gets to be with her Grandpa and Uncle Rick, as well.
We love you both.
Lisa
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